Dating a poor guy

01 Feb

It may seem nice to offer the possibility that one day in the future, you two will find your way back into each other’s arms, but this gives the poor fella false hope.

And with false hope come drunken calls at 3am, asking if you are ready to take him back yet.

This is article #34 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen.

Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.

To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse.

Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.

but lying your way out of a relationship is almost always going to backfire.

” And your response is to shrug your shoulders and say: “I’m not sure really”, or even just “I’d like to be!

This will only put you in his Worst Girlfriend Hall of Fame for life. If you are angry, chances are you are mad at yourself for not seeing who this person was earlier, or for not trusting your own instincts.

If you are to break up because you are angry about something, express yourself. Okay, you don’t have to tell him straight in the face that he is boring, weird, smelly or what-not…

What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons.

Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person – you’d probably have 4 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night. All they have to do is get online every day, sitting on their princess throne and file through the dozens or more profiles of men who have messaged them throughout the day.