Pros of dating a virgin

23 Feb

Fact #1: You are by no means Alone Despite the fact that sexual inexperience seems laughable in certain circles, it’s actually not even that rare.In fact, about 30 percent of Americans say they have had one or no sex partners since turning 18. That’s a fairly surprising figure, since so much of our culture sends the message that practically everyone is having sex all the time, and with lots and lots of partners.(1a) Regardless of the answer, how does one carry oneself, how does one sell oneself?(2) If you could talk about male virginity in general, and what it means for us, as men, today. And even though Steve Carell’s character is the most lovable person in the film, and even though he’s vindicated at the end of the movie, you may have still left the theater at least somewhat uncomfortable, wondering how others might react to the fact that you’ve never had sex.

You will carry it around with you at all times, like a chip on your shoulder.

Take away a child’s favorite toy and put it on a high shelf, where he can see it but not reach it. For the next phase of that child’s life, he will do everything in his power to get you to give him that toy back. Now think of that child as a young adult, and that toy as true love.

Think of what people will do when they are suddenly deprived of the person they love.

It will make you unhappy fast if you’re not doing something fulfilling. It will tell you that you should be better…that you should be more. Move the toy slightly closer to his level every time does something nice.

And the only way to make that voice leave you alone is to give it what it wants: go out there and do it; change your own little piece of the world, and that little voice will cheer you on. Once he realizes the connection between doing good and the toy moving closer, you will have the most well-behaved and obedient child on earth (so long as the toy stays important to him).